Congratulations if you’ve got this far. You’ve nearly got what you came for. You’ve learnt how to meet singles on a hookup site. All the profiles have been written and all the emails sent on the hookup website. You’ve found a girl you like who is also interested in you and she has agreed to go out on a date with you. If you both like each other in person then you know where it will end up. So here is how to do the real-life stuff and get her into bed and the end of the night…
Chose the Place Wisely
There are a couple of things you need to keep in mind when choosing the setting for the date. The main thing is that this is not a proper date. It is a hookup date, and adult hook up dating is different. Neither of you are looking for a relationship or assessing the other for anything long term. Therefore you do not need to woo her with a romantic candlelit dinner at the most expensive restaurant in town. You need to go somewhere where you can get to know each other a bit better briefly, so you can find out if the other person is a scammer/psycho/hooker, then head off for what the night is really about.
The best place for this is a lounge bar. Somewhere you can sit down quietly and chat. Somewhere you can both relax and start to enjoy yourselves. You don’t want somewhere too crowded as then it might become awkward and no different from a regular night out chatting up a girl. Also then you are more likely to run into other guys who will try and cock-block you. So a quiet lounge is best. You can have a drink or two together and then move on if the mood dictates. Regarding drink, only drink if she does. Certainly don’t get hammered. Drunks are a turn-off and considering the whole point of this is sex, it wouldn’t be very bright if you got all this way and then couldn’t perform on the night because you got “Brewer’s Droop”. Stay sober, or at the most have a drink or two to relax you.
Exit Strategy
You need two. One for if you like her, and one for if you don’t. For both you need to be a man.
If you don’t like her then you should just come out and say that this wasn’t what you thought and sorry for wasting her time. Offer to pay for her cab home. Hopefully though this won’t be what happens. If you do like her, and she likes you, you need to get out of there. Again, be a man. You should have come across confident and strong in your profile and online so that is what she will be expecting. Take the lead. Tell her how much you like her and simply ask her back to yours. If she is hesitant then say you’ll happily go to hers as well. Don’t push it either way as that will turn her off but definitely don’t wait for her to make the first move. Be strong, be confident, and be charming and go and get laid.
The rest we’ll leave up to you… Choose a site now !
